The word scandal in dictionary means false and injurious talk but here, I don’t want to talk about that scandal. The scandal that I meant is about having an affair with other person even though you now are in relationship with someone else. This thing happened not only to teenagers but to married couples too despite the fact that they have been married for many years. However, mostly it happened to teenagers nowadays and for them, it is a normal and not a big deal to act like that to their partner.
As we can see today, teenagers are eager to have an affair because for them it is like a tradition no matter boys or girls. Having two handphones at the same time and get very busy to treat two person or more at the same day and surely it will effect their studies or work. Looking for another aspect, it also could make them to waste their money by going out, put makeups, transportation, credits or top-ups, lunch or dinner, go to watch movies and many more. The worst part is when they’ve cheated to their partner’s best friend. Yes, it has happened for many times and it’s not just will break the relationship between the couple but also to the friendship that has been goes for a long time.
Betraying your partner or in other word is your GF/BF, is an unethical in relationship and this can cause a severe effect in relationship. Take a deep breath, inhales and exhales then, think about the future of your relationship. Should it be fantastic or disaster? Therefore, for those teenagers out there, do think about the consequences or penalty of your own action. Maybe, you might think that you are just pulling your legs but for the victim (GF/BF), it hurts them a lot and ask yourself, do you feel hilarious if your partner doing the same thing you did to her/him or do you feel bad same as they are? You have the answers.
It can’t be denial that you’ll feel you’ve a lot of loves around you and your life is completed. However, you’re similar to kill her/him not physically but inside. Just imagine you are in her/his condition, what will you feel? Is it a good feeling? If you think you will feel good, ask your partner to do so to you and you will feel the real ‘GOOD’ that you’ve think before.
What about if your dad get into a scandal and what do you think might happen to your mom? Will she feel so hypnotize by that? Don’t think about yourself, don’t be selfish. Love your lover and don’t betray her/him. Don’t think that she/he may not know about your ‘THING’ because your partner will feel something is wrong and hesitate about your loyalty. The time she/he finds out you’ve cheated her/him, she/he will not doubt to leave you for a good guy/girl they can trust. The feud that you’ve created will eat up yourself and there’s no need to be apologetic because it’s too late for you to regret for what you’ve done.
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